Boulder Mending Systems Lab

Participating in a Constellating Systems Circle is the practice of being with another’s pain while dignifying everyone’s experience. It requires a commitment of your time and attention. It offers unique opportunities to stand in an other’s shoes, while representing a part of their systemic issue (near, literally.) This embodied experience of otherness expands personal experience, it even re–shapes worldviews.

“We are born with an absolute necessity for help, grow well only with a continuous succession of extended hands, and as adults depend upon others for our further successes and possibilities in life even as competent individuals.” –David Whyte–

Mending Heart, Body, Mind, Soul

What if ‘healing’ isn’t about becoming someone new? What if this retreat without bullet point take-aways opens vistas on (many) possible outcomes? What if there is no silver bullet to wick away pain of neglect, violation, absence, unrelenting hunger, and more? What if connecting with left-out parts of you is the route?